Wisdom From Another Indian Sage and His Grandmother
, we talked about Yogananda and his guru’s wisdom on what to do with ghosts/aka how to live fearlessly.
As you may recall, the trick is to APPROACH our challenges rather than try to avoid them.
The story is so good, we’ll quickly review it.
Yogananda’s guru tells him: “My mother once tried to frighten me with an appalling story of a ghost in a dark chamber. I went there immediately, and expressed my disappointment at having missed the ghost. Mother never told me another horror tale.”
Hah. Genius.
The moral of the story?
As I read that moral from an Indian yogi, I thought of another one of my favorite Indian sages, Eknath Easwaran.
In his great book, Your Life Is Your Message, he tells us about a lesson he learned from his Indian guru—who happened to be his grandmother.
The short story?
Young Eknath was complaining about how hard it was to meditate and to change his habits.
He tells us: “I complained about it to my spiritual teacher, my grandmother. She was a very plainspoken teacher, with none of the euphemisms of the intellectual, so she simply led me to a nearby amla tree. The amla is a beautiful tree, a little like the mimosa, with a small fruit. She picked a fruit and said, ‘Here, take a bite.’ I started chewing. It was pretty awful.
I said, ‘I’ve got to spit it out, Granny. It’s sour, bitter, unpleasant.’ She just said, ‘Bear with me. Keep chewing for a while.’ So I went on chewing, and to my surprise the amla fruit began to get sweeter and sweeter.
Approaching our fears?
Rewiring our brains as we create new, virtuous habits that help us flourish while eliminating the old, vicious ones that don’t?
Of course…
The process isn’t always pleasant.
It’s often painful.
It tastes “icky.”
Until…
We have the Wisdom to see that
Let’s do that.
TODAY.